Category Archives: Self-Help

Solve Tough Dilemmas With the Win-Win Waltz

To settle conflicts with resolutions you both feel good about, use this worksheet to guide you through the three steps of the "win-win waltz." You can both always be right.

Some Ways to Practice Are More Perfect Than Others

What separates world-class performers from everyone else is how they practice. Here are the keys to becoming far better at whatever you love doing.

Psychological Diagnosis: Dangerous, Desirable, or Both?

Assigning a psychological diagnostic label can harm your emotional health and your relationships. At the same time, diagnostic clarity can be a benefit. Proceed with caution!

Relationship Feng Shui: 3 Ways to Remove Negative Energy

Ever wonder why you turn people off? Or why someone you know is so hard to be around?

Relationship Problems: What Resources Can Help?

When all looks lost in a relationship, what resources can you turn to that are likely to make a difference? And which kinds of help are most useful when?

Resilience: Why It’s Vital and How To Enhance It

Tennis players must recover from frustrating points within 25 seconds. Tennis players are just humans. If they do resilience so quickly, you can learn to do it too.

Self-Diagnosing Your Marriage Problems? Beware!

Eric Clapton's famed song suggests "Before you accuse me, take a look at yourself." To diagnose and fix problems that come up in your marriage, sit down and look inward instead of pointing fingers at your spouse's errors.

Panic Attacks Are Puzzles

No need to panic about panic attacks. Anxiety surges happen to many folks. The good news though is that butterflies explain how panic attacks can prove helpful for you.

Options for the Unhappily Married

Country music group Pistol Annies poignantly sings about how marriage can become a trap. At the same time, the words suggest ways to open the trap and find routes to happiness,

Not Getting Your Concerns Heard? Try These 5 Tools

Want to become more effective when someone you love, or someone you work with, keeps doing something that bugs you?