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On Whom Can I Depend? How Relationships Support Well-Being

"If I should get sick, who would take care of me?" It's a good question—and one that could lead to positive life changes.

Options for the Unhappily Married

Country music group Pistol Annies poignantly sings about how marriage can become a trap. At the same time, the words suggest ways to open the trap and find routes to happiness,

Our COVID-19 Pandemic Strategy-Makers May Need a CBT Upgrade

Faulty thinking by decision-makers may be preventing better results in fighting the pandemic.

Overcoming BPD: 3 Vital Ways Parents of Teenagers Can Help

What can you do if one or more of your children, young or grown, shows the emotional hyper-reactivity and excessive anger that characterize borderline personality disorder?

Oy, The Holidays: Anticipating An Emotional Rollercoaster?

Use this guide to managing negative feelings if you are expecting that emotional challenges lie ahead.

Pakistan Could Use a Therapeutic Intervention

A Pakistani scholar of international relations has proposed a strategy for helping her country shift from a culture of violence to a culture of collaborative dialogue and cooperative conflict resolution. The program she proposes is remarkably similar to the work I do as a therapist with couples in conflict.

Need Help Coping With a Tough Marriage? A Painful Divorce?

Are coping with a tough marriage, or getting through a divorce, inevitably painful? Here's two factors that can alleviate much of the sting.

Needless Angers: Can They Be Eliminated?

Whether it's low-level irritation or high-intensity rage, speaking or acting in anger can poison relationships. Fortunately, this simple system can end needless anger.

No Way Jose Will I Go With You To Therapy!

There's many ways to get marriage help, with or without the participation of your spouse. Here's three options for fixing marriage problems on your own.

Marriage: 8 Dangerously Wrong Conventional Wisdoms

Mistaken advice about marriage can have potent impacts. Beware especially of these relationship-wreckers.