Author Archives: Susan Heitler
Why Doesn’t She/He Listen To Me? 10 Possibilities
It's frustrating—and disempowering—when someone ignores what you say. Why do they do it?
When Children Have Been Bullied: Healing Options
Bullying can induce phobias and emotional hyper-sensitivy. This new treatment method can erase potential lifelong damage from traumatic events.
When Your Mother Has a Borderline Personality
A parent's borderline personality disorder can have lifelong devastating effects on sons and daughters. What can help children who have a parent who rages at them?
When Is “Doing What Comes Naturally” a Bad Idea?
Studies continue to show that relationship education courses significantly upgrade a couple's chances of enjoying a long and strong bond together. With effective apology, emotional self-regulation, communication and conflict resolution skills, partnerships of all sorts are more likely to thrive.
Why Do Anxiety and High Blood Pressure Go Hand-In-Hand?
Feeling anxious? Concerned about high blood pressure? It's possible that certain alternative treatments may ease the symptoms of both. Here are over a dozen options.
Why Narcissism May Be a Risk Factor for COVID
What is it about narcissistic habits that may put individuals with these habits at increased risk for COVID?
Why Do Marriage Therapists Undertreat Sexual Problems?
Surprisingly few marriage therapists inquire in sufficient detail about ttheir couples' sexual activity, or focus enough on sexual issues during treatment.
Why Am I Still Single? A Quiz
What can you do to increase the odds that you will succeed in selecting a mate and sealing the deal?
Why Affairs Tempt Us, And How to Prevent Them
Most affairs occur because naïve partners slide into sexual situations they can't handle. Learn about gerbils to understand why.
What’s the Best Career For Me? A Quick Way to Identify It
Try this quick three-question visualization to learn the essence of the kind of work you most enjoy doing.